As I mentioned here, when I learned to properly love myself, I finally attracted the kind of love I deserve. With that said, I like to share that my spiritual journey had a lot to do with how I’m supposed to love myself. During my spiritual journey, I’ve entrusted in the power of crystals, essential oils, and even colors to attract and maintain the love I’m worthy of and getting now ūüôā

Our senses are important to our experiences, feelings, and perception of love. For our sense of smell, some aromas can trigger good feelings and bring emotions and desires to the surface. As far as our sense of sight, when we see and even wear our favorite colors, they evoke feelings of happiness, joy,¬†and yes…even love. Of course, when it comes to healing crystals/stones, they can be used to help prepare your heart, as you fall for that special someone.

Essential oils:


Jasmine- This essential oil and its highly fragrant aroma promote warmth. It is seductive for rekindling and sustaining strong relationships, taking away feelings of inadequacy.



Ylang-Ylang- Known for soothing anxieties and conflicts, Ylang Ylang has a euphoric effect on the nervous system. This is a must-have to enhance deeply sensual experiences.


Sandalwood- This unique essential oil easily blends with everyone’s own natural body odors, which means Sandalwood produces different aromas and pheromones for each person. (Pheromones are similar to hormones but work outside of the body. They induce activity in other individuals, such as sexual arousal)


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Rose Quartz- The Rose Quartz is the stone of unconditional love and infinite¬†peace. It’s one of the most important crystals for the heart and the heart chakra. It also brings deep inner healing and self-love.


Aventurine- This special stone is also an important crystal for the heart and the heart chakra. It is a comforter, a heart protector, and attracts harmony. It dissolves negative emotions and thoughts, making room for optimism and an emotional calm.




The colors that represent¬†and evoke feelings of love are…


Solange for Elle




Sza for Vogue